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Money skills by age

Kids learn about money in small steps, mostly by handling real money with a parent nearby. Here's what children can usually learn at each age, and one or two things to try. Every child is different, so use the age bands as a rough guide.

3 to 5

Preschool

Money buys things, and you have to wait sometimes.

They can learn

  • Coins and bills are different and worth different amounts
  • We pay for things at the store
  • Sometimes we wait to buy something

Try this

  • Play store at home with real coins
  • Let them hand money to the cashier
  • Use a clear jar to save for a small treat

Read: Spend, save, give: the three-jar system

6 to 8

Early grade school

Choices: spending on one thing means not spending on another.

They can learn

  • Counting money and making change
  • Needs versus wants
  • Saving for a goal over a few weeks

Try this

  • Start a small weekly allowance
  • Set up spend, save and give jars
  • Compare two prices at the store together

Read: Allowance: how much, when and what for · Spend, save, give: the three-jar system

9 to 12

Tweens

Planning, comparing and the first bank account.

They can learn

  • Comparing prices and value
  • Saving for bigger goals over months
  • How a bank account and interest work
  • Ads and in-app purchases are designed to get you to spend

Try this

  • Open a first savings account together
  • Give a budget for a family outing and let them plan it
  • Let them make (and live with) a small spending mistake

Read: Your child's first bank account · Allowance: how much, when and what for

13 to 15

Young teens

Managing a monthly budget and earning money.

They can learn

  • Making a monthly budget last
  • Earning money from babysitting, pet sitting or yard work
  • Online safety and common money scams
  • What credit is

Try this

  • Switch to a monthly allowance that covers clothes or fun
  • Help them track spending in an app or notebook
  • Talk through a real family bill

Read: Teens and money: paychecks, debit cards and credit · Track your spending for 30 days

16 to 18

Older teens

Real paychecks, debit cards and getting ready to leave home.

They can learn

  • Reading a pay stub and understanding taxes
  • Using a debit card and checking account responsibly
  • How credit cards, interest and credit scores work
  • Comparing the cost of college, training and first apartments

Try this

  • Walk through their first pay stub together
  • Have them pay one recurring bill of their own
  • Build a "first year away" budget together

Read: Teens and money: paychecks, debit cards and credit · Saving for college: the basics

The Consumer Financial Protection Bureau also publishes free "Money as You Grow" activities for parents at consumerfinance.gov.